On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Jason, a 34-year-old from Cape Town living in London. He shares how men rarely open up about their dating lives and feelings to each other, which can lead to a feeling of loneliness when going through something. He takes us through situations with four women he met last year on dating apps that all ended in a similar way. We hear what he's learned from these experiences, how they've impacted him, and what he's hoping for moving forward in his dating life.
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Guys Don't Talk To Each Other About Dating Enough

Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Join host Ilana and both well-known and anonymous, unfiltered guests as they navigate the complexities and realities of modern dating. From first dates to breakups, they’re not afraid to bare all as they dive deep into what it means to be single, in a relationship, or anything in between. Whether you're looking for love, or just want to laugh and commiserate with others, tune in to explore the rollercoaster that is the ever-evolving world of dating. And in the meantime, follow along @seeingotherpeople to feel a little less alone.

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In this episode, I'm joined by Anna, a 28-year-old living in Calgary, Alberta. She dives into her journey of self-discovery and the challenges she's faced along the way. From dealing with breakups to navigating the dating scene with caution and staying true to her values. We also explore her experiences grappling with confusion around sexuality and attraction, as well as her decision to embrace a life without children.

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"Embracing My Values While Dating"

I'M MARRIED!! Today, my husband Jake joins me to recap our wedding weekend—from the nerves and hiccups to the sweetest moments and tears of joy. We spill all the tea about our rehearsal dinner speeches, the heartfelt moments from our ceremony, the joyous celebrations at our reception, and the epic after-party that kept the festivities going. Plus, we reflect on how each of these moments brought us closer together and share the highlights and challenges of our wedding day.

Thank you to our incredible vendors who made this day possible. We couldn’t recommend each of them more highly.
Dress: Tom Sebastien from L’Fay Bridal 
Hair: Hair By Antonella
Makeup: Essie Cohen Makeup
Rings: Flawless Carat
Coordinator: Marisa Shwartz from Rhinebrook Events 
Florals: Frank’s House of Flowers
Content Creator: Dear Bride Social
Band: Sugarlane from Hank Lane Music
Earrings Rental: Verstolo
Cake: Just Desserts By Jess
Trainer: The Irish Yank
Photo Booth: Mashbooths
First Dance: Maya Moves
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WE'RE MARRIED!!

I'm joined by Danielle, a 31-year-old woman living in LA, who opens up about the trauma she went through due to her alcoholic father. She shares how she believed nobody would want to be with her because of what her family was like, and as a result, she closed herself off to finding love. We hear how she moved to Los Angeles to get a fresh start and how she hit rock bottom before creating a life for herself that brought her true happiness. Now, she fears that she's too fiercely independent and successful to find someone. 

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“My Family Was So Messed Up, I Thought I’d Never Find My Person”

On this solo episode, I open up about what I wish I could tell my younger, single, struggling self. I share insight from my experiences as a dater, dating coach, friend, and fiancé. We discuss knowing your worth, not letting someone’s disinterest impact how you view yourself, mindsets to approach dating with, future tripping, fixing people, and so much more.

Book a coaching session, submit a question for the pod, and get in touch at theleap.co/creator/ilanadunn/

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10 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Single Self

My friends Sammy and Glenn met as coworkers and became close “friends with nonsexual benefits.” Sammy and Glenn share how they’ve helped each other naviate dating situations by providing the perspective of the opposite gender, talking one another off the ledge when they’re spiraling, and hyping each other up IRL. We hear how they’ve grown as daters, if they’ve ever argued or disagreed on how to approach a dating situation, how they’ve found the confidence to go to singles events & more. 
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Guys Don't Talk To Each Other About Dating Enough

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