Trying Not to Care by Ashley Corbo

05.13.2024

3 Daily Wins

#111 With it being Mental Health Awareness Month and following last week’s episode, we’re talking about 3 daily wins. A lot of my stress and anxiety come from wanting to be successful, which leads me to overwork myself and put my...

05.06.2024

Rest Is Productive

After struggling with burnout, I thought it was only right to come back and speak about how I’ve been feeling as well as the pressure to always do more. I think a lot of us struggle to actually relax because society...

04.22.2024

I’m Struggling With Imposter Syndrome

You might have seen me recently crying on Tiktok over my imposter syndrome. While I was in California, I found myself in a few uncomfortable situations that ultimately led to me doubting myself and my abilities. In today's episode, I...

04.15.2024

Why Girl Friendships Are So Difficult

In today's episode, I am talking about why girls have such a bad reputation when it comes to friendships. I have heard so many people, especially men, say girls are so much drama and they're always fighting with their friends....

04.08.2024

How to ACTUALLY Be Supportive of Others

Do you find yourself being jealous and unhappy when others succeed? Listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about why we struggle to be happy for others and how to actually be supportive when others do good. SOCIALS AND...

04.01.2024

Celebrating Yourself - MY BIRTHDAY EPISODE

ARIES RISE!!!!! It’s officially April and my birthday week. With my birthday coming up, I wanted to talk about previous birthdays where I felt underappreciated by the people in my life. Birthdays can be really hard, especially when you don’t...

03.25.2024

Why Are We So Afraid of Aging?

Every year around my birthday, I spiral because I am overly aware of the fact that I am getting older. I used to be so excited for my birthday, and now I dread it because I am afraid of getting...

03.18.2024

Stop Being Subtle About What You Want

Stop minimizing what you want out of fear of what others think. SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTX This Episode is Sponsored By: Factor - Visit factormeals.com/tntc50 to get 50% off using code...

03.11.2024

Learning to Become Unbothered

How to stop being bothered by others actions and perception of you. Why you should to stop taking things so personally. Mikayla's episode that inspired me: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5cYgbiocg2UuWhvncuXSwm?si=8hdF6u9NQvuXf7Ky13otPg SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve,...

03.04.2024

Questions to Ask Yourself Next Time You’re in a Funk

YOUR GIRL HAS BEEN IN A FUNK. In an attempt to make myself feel better, here are some questions to ask yourself next time you're in a funk. What’s taking up the majority of your time? Who are you spending time...

02.26.2024

Going Back to an Ex, Dealing with Rejection, Being Okay With Being Alone and the Journey to Self Love - ADVICE SESSION #7

ADVICE SESSION #7!!! This episode covers:Going back to an ex after they left you Being “too sad” or “too much” for people What to do if your partner thinks other people are attractive What to do if your ex is...

02.19.2024

Ways to Say I Love You Without Saying It

In this week's episode, we're talking about the different ways to say and show your love for someone. I am constantly hearing people say, "if he wanted to he would" or "he doesn't love you if he doesn't do this."...

02.12.2024

10 Steps to Self Care

Today we're talking about self-care that goes so much deeper than throwing on a face mask or going for a walk. In today's episode, I talk about 10 non-physical things that you can do to take care of yourself. SOCIALS AND...

02.05.2024

You Lost Them but You Found Yourself - Getting Over a Breakup and Learning to Love Yourself

With February being the month of love, I want to focus the next few episodes on self-love. In today’s episode, I talk about the harm that comes from losing yourself in a relationship as well as the process of learning...

01.22.2024

97: Standing Up for Yourself Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person

Quick mini vent sesh!!! Today's episode is a reminder that you're allowed to be angry and advocate for yourself when someone disrespects you. Standing up for yourself DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying...

01.15.2024

96: Why Being Delusional Actually Works

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS OF TRYING NOT TO CARE. With it being the 2 year anniversary of this podcast, I'm sharing my story of how hard work and being delusional got us here. I I talk about...

01.08.2024

95: For the Girls With No Friends

The truth about big friend groups and why I think the best people have less friends. In today's episode, I talk about the misconception that people with little to no friends are bad and don't know how to maintain healthy friendships....

01.01.2024

94: Getting Out of Your Own Way

HAPPY 2024!!!!!! I'm so excited to spend another year with you, besties

12.18.2023

93: Your Glow up Guide for 2024

NEW YEAR NEW ME As the year comes to a close, it's time to start thinking about who we want to be and what we want our lives to look like in 2024. In today's episode, I talk about goal...

12.11.2023

92: Perspective Is Everything

As the year comes to a close, I've been reflecting on goals of mine that I have and haven't accomplished. While doing this, I've realized that I tend to put much more emphasize on what I haven't completed than what...

12.04.2023

91: Reminders for Hard Days

Here are some gentle reminders for those days that you can't get out of your head. 1. Time heals everything. 2. It's okay if not everyone likes you. You don't like everyone. 3. You've never had an original thought. Negative thinking and...

11.20.2023

90: Stop Being Desperate

STOP BEING DESPERATE!! If you find yourself begging for partners to treat you right, double-texting your friends for a response, or chasing fame and success, listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about my own experience and how I...

11.13.2023

89: The Reality of Being in Your 20s

Now that I'm in my mid to late 20s, I have been stressing a little bit about my "timeline." What my next moves are—if I'm going to have kids, if I'm going to get married, if I'm going to buy...

11.06.2023

88: Understanding Your Triggers

Sometimes when we get upset, we don't know entirely why because what we're upset over seems so insignificant. But a lot of the time, the reason we're upset is because things that we've struggled with in the past resurface. In...

10.30.2023

87: Getting Over a Crush, Codependency, Facing Failures, Growing Up Too Fast and Social Anxiety - ADVICE SESSION #6

Welcome to another advice session! In today's episode I answer some of your questions. This episode covers: - How to handle mood swings - Figuring out if someone likes you back - How to get over a crush - How to...

10.23.2023

86: 30 Day Glow up Challenge

For the girls who want to form habits and feel good but don't want to commit to 75 hard or 75 soft. After finishing 75 hard, I fell off a little bit with my routine, and I decided I wanted...

10.16.2023

85: Your Value Doesn’t Decrease Based on Someone’s Inability to See Your Worth

Listen to this episode if you find yourself basing your value on what others think. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with past relationships and how I allowed how they treated me to determine my worth. This episode...

10.09.2023

84: Hot Girls Have Seasonal Depression

It's no secret that I love fall. I love fall fashion, fall activities, seasonal food, pumpkin spice coffee and even the weather. But once Halloween passes and the temperature drops below 60, I find myself being affected by seasonal depression....

10.02.2023

83: Working With Your Cycle: Cycle Syncing to Make Your Life Easier

For the majority of my life, I was under the impression that I got my period and that was it. I had no idea about the four phases of the menstrual cycle and how those phases affect our body. Recently...

09.25.2023

82: How to Be Irresistible, Attractive and Magnetic (Part 1)

As much as I love hot girl fall, I want to be hot every single season. In today's episode, I talk about 5 things that I believe not only make someone attractive but also magnetize others to them. In this...

09.18.2023

81: Getting to Know Myself Better - 26 Questions to Discover Who You Are

GET TO KNOW ME! I love to share my thoughts and advice with you on this podcast but very rarely do I share much information about myself. In today's episode, I'm answering 26 questions about me, so you and I...

09.11.2023

80: Your Only Competition Is Yourself

In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when I'm...

09.04.2023

79: Trying Isn’t Embarrassing. Why You Should Go After What You Want, Regardless of What Others Think.

If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode. After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about the...

08.28.2023

78: My Morning and Night Routine, Non-Negotiables and How to Build Your Own Perfect Routine

Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time to have a dedicated...

08.21.2023

77: Why I Like Being Like “Other Girls”

We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women...

08.14.2023

76: Things I’ve Been Doing to Make Life More Enjoyable

Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it....

08.07.2023

75: Listen When You Want to Feel Motivated or Inspired - Advice Session #5

I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration. In today's episode, I answer your questions about Lowering your screen time Staying consistent Being afraid of failure Changing career paths Change Spending...

07.31.2023

74: Get Better Not Bitter. Breaking the Cycle of Hurt People Hurt People

Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the...

07.24.2023

73: Things to Stop Saying to Yourself. Why Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to...

07.17.2023

72: Discovering Your Purpose

In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I...

07.10.2023

71: Forgiving Yourself. Turning ”I Should Have Known Better” to ”Now I Know Better”

It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the...

07.03.2023

70: The Pressure to Drink and Managing Hangxiety

With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why...

06.26.2023

69: 5 Things That Are Making You Unattractive

In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence this. I go over...

06.19.2023

68: Healed Girl Summer

Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about - putting yourself first -...

06.12.2023

67: Female Friendships: Why They’re Hard, Friendship Expectations and Growing Apart From Friends With Lauren Raymond

PLEASE WELCOME TRYING NOT TO CARE'S VERY FIRST GUEST....LAUREN RAYMOND!!! Lauren and I talk about our experience with female friendships and friendship breakups. In today's episode we dive into why we think female friendships are hard, expectations and non non-negotiables,...

06.05.2023

66: Finding Joy in the Little Things

The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the...

05.29.2023

65: Navigating Your 20s: Strict Timelines, Living on Your Own, Saving Money, Loving Your Body and Balancing Alone Time and Friendships - ADVICE SESSION #4

ADVICE ON BEING IN YOURS 20S In today's episode, I answer your questions on how to navigate your 20s. This episode covers: - Feeling like you're behind in your 20s. Not being "on track" because you aren't doing conventional things like getting...

05.22.2023

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